I feel safe in bangkok, but make sure you feel safe as well and feel the air before taking any risks. Just go there with your wife, have a good time talk to some girls and see what they say. I am going to bangkok in the month of dec with my wife. He knows a lot about the thai sex industry and he can tell you all you need to know.
A dancer with reading glasses (she must have bad eyesight) inserted a straw into her privates and proceeded to blow each candle out. Regarding the barfines: i am enjoying bangkok these days for the first time. I have only been to this show and to the go-go bars in the evening.